July 9, 2009 10:05 a.m.Today’s scripture readings are Proverbs 30-31 (http://tiny.cc/prov30_31). I received a call the other day. It began this way: “I am the aunt of John McCain and I need for you to do a funeral for our family.” My immediate reply was: “Who has passed away?” Her response? “John… of course.” It took me a second. We had a member who passed away several years ago named John McCain. You may remember him as Patsy’s husband. I was not shocked that she called and asked for help with a funeral. I thought that maybe she had been to John’s or Patsy’s service and remembered me. I was shocked that she was calling about John. To make a short story long, it is a different John McCain. [Some of you may even remember that there was a John McCain who ran for president a long, long time ago. He’s still kicking and he already has a Pastor. Who knew Sarah Palin would retire before he did?] She got my name from a funeral home director who knows me from another connection. I will be headed downtown about 9:00 a.m. to help people I don’t know process grief. Grief is hard enough when you know the person helping you. How much harder is it when you are dealing with grief all alone? I read articles every day online. Some are dull and others are irrelevant. Sometimes they are really done well. There are two that caught my eye today. They are linked here. The first speaks of grief. The second speaks of loneliness. http://www.ethicsdaily.com/news.php?viewStory=14507 http://www.ethicsdaily.com/news.php?viewStory=14506 The two issues are linked much too often. Have you found yourself confused or bewildered or grieving and you look around and you just can’t find anyone to talk to? At that point it is hard to see which is more painful; the grief or the loneliness. Church ought to be a place where those conversations occur. We will all grieve, but we should never feel alone in our struggles. I have people ask me all the time: “Why should I come to church?” Maybe it’s too simple an answer, but one might be…When someone you love dies; at least you know the person who will walk you through your grief. Say a prayer for the McCain family today. They could sure use it. JVBC on Twitter: http://twitter.com/jvbcatthecross JVBC on Facebook: http://wwwfacebook.com/group.php?gid=15999501661&ref=mf http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=15999501661&ref=mf JVBC on Xanga: http://jvbcxanga.com/
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